This post was most recently updated on November 30th, 2019
When you think about taking your children on a road trip, do you go into panic mode? Can you already hear “Are we there yet?” and “I have to go potty now!” in your mind? I’ve got good news for you; it’s not nearly as bad as you think.
Although my children are grown now, we’ve logged thousands of miles with young children in tow over the last 25 years. Once our oldest child turned two, it wasn’t affordable to fly, and we turned to road trips out of financial necessity. It wasn’t an option to just stay home, either. But over the years, our children learned to really enjoy traveling by car. In large part, that was because of the things we did to keep them happy. Here are some tried and proven ways to keep your children happily entertained on a road trip…Disclosure: I have included links to some of our favorite road trip products — ones we’ve personally used or would have liked to use, had they been available. They are affiliate links, so if you purchase anything, I will receive a small commission, at no extra cost to you.
1. Make your children as comfortable as possible
This seems so obvious, but no one likes being cramped in a small space for a long time, especially when confined to a seat belt. Depending on the number of seats in your vehicle, try rotating where your children sit, so that at any one time, at least one has more space to “spread out.” Squeeze all your kids together, and you will undoubtedly hear “M-O-M, (insert child’s name here) touched me!” more than you like.
Throw in some extra pillows so they can lean against windows or doors. You can even add a thick sleeping bag across the carseat so it’s more cushioned. Install window “shades” so they don’t have bright sun in their eyes. This can be as simple as rolling down a window about an inch, inserting a pillow case or hand towel, and rolling the window back up to hold it in place.
2. Music tames the wild beast the fussiest child
When I was a kid, we took a road trip every summer. My father rigged some headphone jacks to the back of our seats and gave us all a big, boxy pair of headphones to wear. They were wired to a cassette player and the car stereo so we could listen to a) some cheesy children’s tape or b) popular songs on the radio. We thought our dad was so cool!
Nowadays, there are so many more options for kids. Whether it’s a MP3 player with favorite tunes, the car’s CD player, music downloaded to your phone, or just singing a cappella, music can really make a long road trip go a lot faster. My children’s favorite sing-a-long music was Wee Sing Willy Songs, by Wee Sing. For about $8 you get a CD with a booklet with all the words printed out. There never was money better spent! Wee Sing has apps, downloadable MP3 files, and an amazing assortment of CD’s, including one called Wee Sing in the Car that even includes travel games. As parents, I bet you’ll find yourself singing along as well.
When we took our adult children to France, they were still singing in the rental car as we drove—this time singing in four-part harmony. It was wonderful!
3. Give them some independence
Do you really want to be the “go-to” person for the entire road trip? You’re going to field a lot of requests for food and other items. Plan ahead and pack “travel kits” for each child so they won’t have to bug you for every little thing. Kits might include granola bars, baby carrots, mints, or crackers in non-spillable containers. Add paper and pencils, stickers, small toys (especially something new), books, maps, water bottles, and so on. You know what makes your children tick—plan ahead and put together something they will enjoy.
4. Tell stories
Stories are a wonderful way to engage the entire family. You can read books, listen to audio books, or make up your own. One of our children’s favorite stories was an ongoing tale of “The Attack Skunk” that my husband made up. He continued to embellish the story of a skunk that was stalking him and added new adventures about how he had outsmarted the skunk every time we were out with the kids. They LOVED it! I really should have him write them down!
On another trip, we purchased a set of CD’s for one of the Harry Potter books. It was 13 hours long, and the kids insisted on sitting in the car in our driveway for another 45 minutes because our road trip ended before the story did!
5. Play games together
There are all kinds of games that are fun to play on a road trip. Here are a few of our favorites:
- License Plate Game. We offered this game to our children as a way to earn souvenir money. For every state they could find a license plate for as we traveled, we would give them a dime. They had to keep track and write them down, or there was no payout. We loved this game. It kept them quiet for long stretches of time, and they liked having money to buy treats or toys when we arrived at our destination. Click on this link United States License Plates for a free printable.
- ABC game. I think everyone knows a version of this game. Find every letter of the alphabet in order. Whether looking for an actual letter on a sign or license plate…or looking for an object that starts with each letter, this game will keep the kids looking and learning as you travel.
- Travel Bingo. This game can be made even more fun by giving “tokens” that can be eaten when a bingo (five objects in a row) is completed. Children look for the objects on the bingo card and place a mini marshmallow, chocolate chip, or M & M on each picture they find. When they complete a bingo, they get to eat their tokens! If you prefer to use a non-sugared token, pennies or buttons make good markers, too. Find the Travel Bingo game here and print on sturdy cardstock. You’ll find five versions of Travel Bingo so your children don’t all get bingos at the same time!
- Judge the Distance. My husband invented this game. He would look ahead and search for a landmark in the distance, point it out to all of the kids, and have them guess how many miles away it was. Then everyone would watch out the window as my husband counted off the miles we’d gone since initiating the challenge. The child who guessed the most correct number of miles as we passed the landmark won the prize—usually a quarter or a Hersheys chocolate kiss. With more and more practice, the kids got pretty good at estimating distances!
- Don’t Spell a Word. We played this when our children needed games that were more challenging. One person started the game by choosing a letter (for example, “T”). The second child had to add a letter without creating a word, but had to have a specific real word in mind (example, “T-H”). If the second child had said “O”, the game would end because “T-O” spells a word. If a combination of letters doesn’t appear to be spelling a real word, the next person can challenge it. Let’s say, the letters that have been given are “S-C-H-L” and the person taking the 5th turn challenges the 4th person because that’s a strange letter combination. But the 4th person has the word “SCHLEP” in mind. In this case, the 5th person would be out for issuing the challenge. Everyone continues to take turns until someone is forced to finish spelling a word. Then the game starts over with a new start person.
The fact is, there are lots of resources for travel games. Many traditional games have travel versions that are easier to play on the road, like Yahtzee and Trouble. Another fun game for the entire family is “Would You Rather?“, where you ask silly or challenging questions. Choose games and activities that work for your kids–create some new traditions–and enjoy your road trips! If you need ideas for toddler activities, I’ve included several in this blog post.
6. Do plan some stops
Not just for bathroom visits, but for fun. You want your kids to believe that you remember what it’s like to be young. Stop at a playground or park for a few minutes of run-around time. The pay-off will be much bigger than any time lost.
Or drive through their favorite fast food restaurant for lunch. If saving money is mandatory, pack a picnic lunch and choose a scenic place to enjoy it.
7. Make a big deal out of little things.
My husband and I once stopped at a roadside park and threw a Frisbee back and forth to celebrate the car turning over 100,000 miles. On another road trip, we travelled all day on my daughter’s birthday. To make it more fun for her, we gave her a small gift to open every 100 miles.
If you take the time to prepare ahead and make car travel fun for your kids, you will reap so many rewards—great memories for the entire family, a closeness created by spending quality time together, and a greater appreciation for the scenery and experiences that can only come from taking a road trip! Remember to find joy in the journey; it’s not just about getting there.